On Loving Out Loud

 We live in a hyper negative environment,  a world surrounded by fear and anger, and in a world like this, loving loudly is disruptive. People do nor know what to do with this.

Use your words often to love your wife out loud!

 Tell her how beautiful she is often, praise her  hard work, her yummy meals, her sense of humor, her effort to when she tries something new. Learn to communicate well and daily, to express how madly in love you are with her. Tell her how proud she makes you (be specific).

Remember that you can be a very masculine man  and still openly express love and affection for your wife. You can be successful in many areas and still complement your wife. In private and in public. But do it out loud. Infront of anyone and everyone.


Be the kind of man that sees the good in people, specially in your wife. Notice her. Notice her qualities before her defects, Think the best of her, remember she is on your side... ALWAYS!..  

Have such a a positive outlook on life and the future... we know Christ wins at the end -  SO there is much to rejoice! Your positive attitude  should be contagious. Be the kind of man that leaves your wife (and any person you are with for that matter),  better that they were before you were with her. Mark their day with a smile on their faces.

Love out loud!

Love so loud that she and your kids will learn what this love looks like.



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